Inner strength is something that we all have, whether we like to think so or not. Some have it more than others, yes I will admit that, but at the same time we ALL have it. I see so many people curl up, and give up so easily and it aggravates me in the worst way. I don't like to compare people's situations, we all handle things differently, but at the same time what you do during your low points really can define your character. I know some people that will just cry and break down; I know some people that chose not to say anything and let it go; I know some people that chose to take everything upon themselves. Don't give up because life gets hard.
This all sparked from someone I know, who is going through a lot of issues. I love this person to death! I would definitely do anything for this person, but at the same time, it doesn't make sense to me. "He" just wants to give up because life is hard. No one said that anything in this world would be easy, so get use to it! I am sorry to be mean and blunt but I am so tired of people sitting there and just crying about it.
This is to that person: People always leave no matter what anyone will tell you, but this doesn't mean that you will never see them ever again. Any type of relationship takes work. It doesn't matter if it's 2 friends whom are far apart or two people that are in love. It's not easy, and if you really care about the person, and if you want the person in your life, you are willing to go through some struggle!
Life is hard, and it only gets harder.
Another thing that bothers me is when people don't take time to do things for themselves. If things in your life are slipping, things such as school, friends, love life or what ever, maybe you need to step back, and figure it all out. Take some time to focus on YOU, then deal with the rest. If you say that your life is falling apart, then you should do something about it.
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I don't want to sound "blunt" either but I feel like this is a bit "Pollyanna", if you will. What I mean by that is many, many people do not know how to just "get over it" or walk away or be happy with what they have. And even more people do not know how to express their emotions in a positive manner. In terms of people who don't take care of themsleves, that is happening for a reason and I highly doubt they can just pick up and fix it all. I guess what I am saying is life takes more work and is more complex than a simple fix. You and I both know that. We have both dealt with so many complicated situations and cried, bitched, yelled, gotten depressed, etc. Yes, in the end, we pick up and figure it out. But we are cooler than everything else. ;)
ReplyDeleteMost everything you said is true. My comments are not to argue or say you are wrong. However, I think challenges in life are a little more complicated than simplicity.
i completely and totally agree, but i left out one major detail: this has been going on for about a year and a half now. When one sits there are literally does NOTHING for his/herself, there is a HUGE problem. People have to be more proactive about their lives :)
ReplyDeleteYes you and i both have been in those shoes, but i think that we act more proactively about it.
Well you didn't mention that part :)
ReplyDeletelol, my baddd :)
ReplyDeletesmh at that person
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